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The images are hard to beat: a happy person and even happier dog, grinning into the camera as they
enjoy the beach or a snack or a walk. The caption is what really tugs at the heartstrings: “This was Buster’s final time to smell the ocean air.”
Doggy bucket lists have been around for some time, but with a plethora of photogenic pets going viral on social media, they’ve become more and more popular. It’s a lovely idea: Knowing that our beloved companions have a finite time on this earth, why not embrace the time we have left and make sure that
when they depart it’s with no regrets?
Just in the past year, we’ve seen
several pets’ final days of exploration and adventure in the news:
The dogs above had a few things in common: They were all afflicted with
cancer, the sort of terminal disease that really seems to add a strict deadline to things, and they all had humans who loved them very much.
With all the stories we’re seeing about doggy bucket lists, I can see how tempting it would be to do one for your own pet. Heck, I’ve done it myself. That being said, I caution owners to be careful when planning these sorts of adventures, as your pets really can’t give a whole lot of input into what they feel like doing. And after all, you're doing this for
worked in hospice exclusively for several years, I know that by the time most pets receive a terminal diagnosis, they are feeling pretty crummy. The type of symptoms they are most likely experiencing varies depending on the diagnosis and will have a lot of bearing on which activities are most appropriate.
For example, osteosarcoma — bone cancer — is a very painful diagnosis. Though many pets afflicted with this may have a normal appetite, a lot of physical activity may not be the best choice for them. Other diseases, such as
kidney disease, may cause nausea and sleepiness. These pets may not truly enjoy extended
It's easy to come up with things you want to do with your dog, but that's not the question you should ask yourself. The right question is, what would she most enjoy?
Earlier this year, my mother was diagnosed with brain cancer, and I immediately jumped into action planning a bucket list trip to Orlando. She had always wanted to see Harry Potter land.
We can have nurses on call! Family there! It will be great! She smiled but had zero interest in a cross-country trek. We spent two days at the local beach instead, and that was just fine for her. In retrospect, I’m so glad we made that choice.
When my dog, Kekoa, was diagnosed with bone cancer, I found myself listing all the things I had wanted her to try, like kayaking and
beach walks. Then, I made a list of all the things
she enjoyed the most: Food. Food. Cuddles. Food. So that is what we went with: a bucket list full of
dog-safe delicacies. We started with kale and worked our way up to some of her favorite meats; we even had a
dog treat company make her an alligator muffin. We never left the neighborhood. She was very happy. On the day she died, she ate ice cream.
Years ago, when my dog, Emmett, had
lymphoma, his appetite and energy were low. His favorite place on Earth was
Dog Beach, so we made a final, low-key trip and sat on the sand, the place he used to tear up and down just a few months prior. We stayed for 20 minutes, side by side, his tail wagging as we watched other dogs jumping in the waves. It was perfect. He died two days later.
Truth be told, the best way to live out a grand bucket list is to do it before your pet gets ill, while she is still healthy. And if that doesn’t happen — life gets busy, right? — make sure the list is about your pet, right at that moment in her current state, and not the regrets you might feel about what you missed your chance to do.
If you are dealing with a terminally ill pet and want to come up with a bucket list of your own, first, let me
offer my condolences. These situations are always tough no matter the circumstances. Here are some of my personal favorite bucket list items:
For some of the most popular bucket list items, your first step should be to ask your vet for guidance. Here's why:
To be clear, I don’t see anything wrong with the dogs and owners I listed earlier, and I’m certainly not intending to critique their choices. We will assume these were activities done with the blessing of their medical advisors. But before you follow in their footsteps, please make sure that the activities you choose are the right ones for your own pets.
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